He's Just Not That Into You

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Many of us are contaminated by the word "friendzone" Like we are now served with a phase of our life - well love life- that we can get away with by throwing the friendzone word.

But is it really true?

Or is it really works as it sounds?

For me, it should be easily translated into "he/she is just not that into you".

How come?

So, many of us might have been caught up in a heated and intense conversation with someone. for weeks, or even months. So much that we, like it or not, realize it or not, get attached by the routine. 

By the time being on texting basis, it seems all the feelings were reciprocated. Easy, because when you text, you have all the time in the texting standard time to arrange a proper answer/respond. It'll be so much different when the conversations or the on going relationship is done by doing face to face meet up, direct contact, or so.

(Not) Getting Married (Yet)

Diamond Ring on My Hand :) - Evatarida - @evatarida - evataridablog - evataridasitompul

"I don't know about you, but I'm feeling twenty two! [Taylor Swift]" no, I'm not 22, I'm in fact 28. I already on my late 20s, and closer to 30 haha. Problem? No, not at all. For me. But it seems like it becomes problem for those around me.  Why? 

I'm still single.

Feeling that Feels Like Love

"People are strange when you are a stranger"

sepenggal lirik dari The Doors ini mirip dengan peribahasa yang sudah lama malang melintang di jagad Indonesia ini; Tak kenal Maka Tak Sayang. Begitulah kurang lebih menurut saya. Begitu, bukan? :D

Adalah wajar kalau kita merasa aneh atau awkward dengan seorang stranger, atau orang yang baru kita temui. Ya sudah pastilah.. Lha namanya aja baru tahu tadi. Belum tentu juga tahu usianya. Mau tanya takut disangka ngga sopan. tapi kalau ngga tanya, nanti guyonannya ngga nyambung gimana, berabe kan? Mau becanda ala biasanya, takut nanti orangnya sayensitip jadi tersinggung. Atau jangan-jangan orangnya super lemot, jadi ngomong apa aja doi cuma plonga-plongo ngga ngerti kita lagi obrolin apa.

Haha..

Pikiran-pikiran seperti itu pasti bisa muncul saat kita pertama kali ketemu atau dikenalin ke orang baru.

Seiring berjalannya waktu tentu kita akan makin tahu dan mengenal seseorang. Entah nantinya kita akan kenal baiiiikkk banget atau ya sekedar tahu kalau orang ini agak sensi kalau ngomongin umur, atau tentang "kapan kewooonggg?" gitu.