He's Just Not That Into You

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Many of us are contaminated by the word "friendzone" Like we are now served with a phase of our life - well love life- that we can get away with by throwing the friendzone word.

But is it really true?

Or is it really works as it sounds?

For me, it should be easily translated into "he/she is just not that into you".

How come?

So, many of us might have been caught up in a heated and intense conversation with someone. for weeks, or even months. So much that we, like it or not, realize it or not, get attached by the routine. 

By the time being on texting basis, it seems all the feelings were reciprocated. Easy, because when you text, you have all the time in the texting standard time to arrange a proper answer/respond. It'll be so much different when the conversations or the on going relationship is done by doing face to face meet up, direct contact, or so.

(Not) Getting Married (Yet)

Diamond Ring on My Hand :) - Evatarida - @evatarida - evataridablog - evataridasitompul

"I don't know about you, but I'm feeling twenty two! [Taylor Swift]" no, I'm not 22, I'm in fact 28. I already on my late 20s, and closer to 30 haha. Problem? No, not at all. For me. But it seems like it becomes problem for those around me.  Why? 

I'm still single.

Aku Masih Seperti yang Dulu (?)

Pagi ini, salah satu BBM Group saya ada notifikasi. Tandanya ada yang posting sesuatu dalam grup. Saya buka, dan rupanya salah satu teman kerja saya yang posting. Isinya begini "Cieee Tulisannya Eva masuk MUI.." dengan ada screenshot dari komputer.

Break Up

Break Up.

It's something that somehow (almost) everybody would experienced. Either once, twice, three times, or more. Either having it with different person, or going on and off with the same person.

I, myself just experienced it. This wasn't my first break up, but with the same person on and off. But this time, I guess this was really the final straw.

I once read that people can actually die because of broken heart. Really? I have to quote you one of fine line from one of my fave TV series, Perception: 

"Why are breakups so damn excruciating? 

Apakah Cinta & Kesetiaan (Masih) Belum Cukup?

Banyak yang bilang, cinta datang tiba-tiba. Ada yang bilang cinta datang karena terbiasa, ada juga yang percaya dengan cinta pada pandangan pertama. Jujur, saya bukan penganut aliran yang terakhir itu. Buat saya, tidak ada namanya cinta pada pandangan pertama. Terpesona pada pandangan pertama, iya. Takjub pada pandangan pertama, iya. Tertarik pada pandangan pertama, iya. Tapi cinta? Menurut saya tidak seinstan itu. Mie instan saja tetap butuh proses.

Jungkir Balik Dunia Kita

Hari ini, agak sore gitu, ada kejutan kecil. Ada yang kehilangan komputer jinjing. Dua orang sekaligus.

Ceritanya, mereka meeting di salah satu mall. Mereka parkir mobilnya di basement, dan taruh tas berisi komputer jinjing mereka itu di dalam mobil. Singkat cerita, saat mau balik, lubang kunci mobil sudah rusak. Dan dua buah tas mereka raib.